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MOVIES to watch

2009-05-25T19:10:00.000-07:00

"Star Trek" Namelia-J's Pick

The fate of the galaxy rests in the hands of bitter rivals. One, James Kirk, is a delinquent, thrill-seeking Iowa farm boy. The other, Spock, was raised in a logic-based society that rejects all emotion. As fiery instinct clashes with calm reason, their unlikely but powerful partnership is the only thing capable of leading their crew through unimaginable danger, boldly going where no one has gone before.

We Think: I have never watched Star Trek before. Really. Okay, maybe I did, when I was a toddler, but that doesn't count since I hardly remember it. Anyways, I can see why Trekkies were excited about this movie. It has a nice blend of action and even some humour in it. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this movie. And I think that James Kirk (Chris Pine. You might remember him from Just My Luck) is adorable. :3

"Night at The Museum 2"

When the Museum of Natural History is closed for upgrades and renovations, the museum pieces are moved into federal storage at the famous Washington Museums. The centerpiece of the film will be bringing to life the Smithsonian Institution, which houses the world's largest museum complex with more than 136 million items in its collections, ranging from the plane Amelia Earhart (Amy Adams) flew on her non-stop solo flight across the Atlantic and Al Capone's (Jon Bernthal) rap sheet and mug shot to Dorothy's ruby slippers, Fonzie's jacket from Happy Days, the still from M*A*S*H and Archie Bunker's lounge chair from All in the Family. With a forwarded resume, Larry (Ben Stiller) becomes another caretaker at the Smithsonian, where Kahmunrah, an evil Pharaoh will come to life with the reestablishing of a tablet as a magical force in the museum bringing the old exhibits (Such as Theodore Roosevelt and Dexter) and new exhibits (like General Custer and Al Capone) back to life, and in conflict with each other. Larry enlists the help of Amelia Earheart, who he develops a romantic interest in, and together they try to put everything back in order.

We Think: A very ordinary movie with nothing to rave about. There are some funny parts in it, I give you that.

"It's a Boy Girl Thing"

The next door neighbors Nell Bedworth and Woody Deane have opposite behaviors and hate each other: the virgin geek Nell is polite, sensitive and well-prepared to go to Yale, while Woody is rude and his greatest expectation is to join a mediocre university due to his abilities playing football. When Nell and Woody are assigned to visit together a museum, they argue in front of the statue of an Aztec god. During the night, their souls swap bodies, bringing difficult situations to them. They first try to damage the reputation of the other in the high-school, but sooner they discover that their dream of joining college would only happen with mutual respect and support.

We Think: This movie, while predictable, was enjoyable. It is just like every other teen movie, but that doesn't mean that it is bad. In fact, I found it very funny. I loved the part where the girl woke up in the guy's body and found that she had 'morningwood'. Hilarious. XD

"X-Men Origins: Wolverine"

"X-Men Origins: Wolverine" tells the story of Wolverine's epically violent and romantic past, his complex relationship with Victor Creed, and the ominous Weapon X program. Along the way, Wolverine encounters many mutants, both familiar and new, including surprise appearances by several legends of the X-Men universe.

We Think: This movie was awesome! I loved everything about it; from the graphics to the plot to everything. Especially the graphics. However, I think that the previous X-Men movies are better, but Wolverine tied it all up nicely. - "X-Men Origins: Wolverine" review by Natasha

The winner of American Idol is...

2009-05-21T19:07:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to Kris Allen! :D

To be honest, I was quite surprised that Kris won. I thought that Adam would win because I kept on hearing people raving about him. But based on Kris' last performance, I think he truly deserves to be the winner of American Idol. Again, congratulations! :D

American Idol: Adam Lambert Vs. Kris Allen

2009-05-20T08:51:00.000-07:00

The countdown begins to the crowning of this season’s American Idol and battling for gold this year are two tremendously different artists – rock singer Adam Lambert, 27, from Sandiego; and guy-next-door Kris Allen, 23, fresh from Arkansas.

Who’s going to beat the odds and win ‘em all? We don’t have the answers!

However, psychotic fans that we are, we will serve you with predictions as to who we THINK has the American vote in the form of (my personal favourite pastime) a debate session.

Allow me to introduce to you Psychotic Fan #1, Namelia-J’s very own Tech Geek, Hajer!

Hajer:
KRADAM. KRADAM. KRADAM.

I’ve been following Idol since it first premiered on Malaysian television, and I have to say, this year’s serving tops all! I’ve never heard a better, more deserving cast of contestants in one season; and that’s the truth!

To be honest, I think both Kris and Adam should win! YES!

Just like Kris and Adam themselves have said, they’re both totally different artists, they both have two distinctly different styles, and, therefore, put together, they can’t be judged or compared. What it really boils down to is what the listener prefers.

Since auditions and, thus, throughout, I primarily had my votes on Adam because, honestly, I never actually realized Kris was even there – not until top 9, atleast. But, hey, we can all thank American Idol for that. After all, with such little screen time in his favour, who can blame a man from getting the hype he truly deserves?

All in all, I totally think that they both are winners.

If only Idol could call it a two way win for a change - that would be kick-awesome! I love Kris and Adam so much and I’m sure they would both make great, top selling albums. In fact, I'd be the first in line to buy their albums when they release.

So, whoever wins tomorrow doesn’t really matter. All the winner pretty much wins is the title of “who has the more obsessive fanbase” instead of who actually sings better because they are both seriously great at what they do.

Left to themselves, they are all ready Idols, in my opinion.

Kradam for the win.

And, speaking on behalf of the neutral party who just recently began taking interest in this amazing fad, the amazing, wonderful, genius that is I, N. Hannah, the Namelia-J Editor!

Hannah:
Before we begin, I’d like to stress on the fact that I am today acting as the neutral party in today’s debate. I’ve only started watching from the top 4, I think, but have been kept very-much up-to-date as to who has been singing what and how they’ve been doing and so on – all thanks to my sister, Hajer (or Psychotic Fan #1), of course.

To be honest, in terms of musical ability and overall performance, my vote would have to be Adam Lambert.

I’m not a fan of rock music all that much, and I must say that after a while his screaming does tend to get incredibly boring – but even then you have to admit, he pulls off every song you throw at him profoundly (if not a tad predictably).

In other words, what I mean to say is: he sings great. If it’s your first time seeing him or listening to him sing, he would definitely amaze you.

But if you’ve followed the show from day one and if you’ve heard one or two of his performances, then, basically, you heard them all – rock week, country week, any genre on any week, this guy is bound to pull the same trick: hit a few high notes and scream the rest out.

There you go. Awesome.

Kris, on the other hand, is, like the judges have often said, the dark horse of the competition.

Top 13 and you hardly even notice him.

Top 11 and it piques your interest as to why he’s still safe and in the running.

Then, out of the blue, Top Downloads week comes on and this random dude sitting behind his piano mesmerizes you with his intense rendition to, “Ain’t No Sunshine.”

Simply put, Kris Allen has had his ups and downs. Often times when the judges expect him to be sent back, he shocks all and keeps going.

He may not have as much musical prowess as competitor Adam Lambert, but this guy certainly does know how to keep his audience guessing.

We’ve basically seen everything Lambert has to offer, but something tells me that Kris’ best has yet to come.

In conclusion?

This is a tough one. Adam seems to be in the lead, but Kris is never without some surprises up his sleeve.

BOOKS, Pick of The Month: May

2009-05-15T21:41:00.000-07:00

Everyone knows about Meg Cabot's books, right? So this month, since Melissa has a lot of Meg Cabot novels, we've decided to read her books and review them for you. This month, it is all Meg Cabot, baby!

"The Princess Diaries" by Meg Cabot

Mia Thermopolis is pretty sure there's nothing worse than being a five-foot-nine, flat-chested freshman, who also happens to be flunking algebra.

Is she ever in for a surprise.

First, Mom announces that she's dating Mia's algebra teacher. Then Dad has to go and reveal that he is the crown prince of Genovia. And guess who still doesn't have a date for the Cultural Diversity Dance?

We Think: I love the Princess Diaries series. Really, I do. This book is sure to have you laughing. It is very light. Easy reading. Funny. Perfect for reading on the beach. This book is what I would describe, reading for fun.

"The Mediator" by Meg Cabot

Suze is a mediator - a liaison between the living and the dead. In other words, she sees dead people. And they won't leave her alone until she helps them resolve their unfinished business with the living. But Jesse, the hot ghost haunting her bedroom, doesn't seem to need her help. Which is a relief, because Suze has just moved to sunny California and plans to start fresh, with trips to the mall instead of the cemetery, and surfing instead of spectral visitations.

But the very first day at her new school, Suze realizes it's not that easy. There's a ghost with revenge on her mind... and Suze happens to be in the way.

We Think: One of my personal favourites. The chemistry between Suze and Jesse is awesome, and Jesse makes your heart melt. I'm not kidding. He is THAT hot. He makes me swoon. On a more serious note though, the story is good, eventhough the beginning is a bit boring.

"All American Girl" by Meg Cabot

Top Ten Reasons Samantha Madison is in Deep Trouble:

10. Her big sister is the most popular girl in school
9. Her little sister is a certified genius
8. She's in love with her big sister's boyfriend
7. She got caught selling celebrity portraits in school
6. And now she's being forced to take art classes
5. She's just saved the president of the United States from an assassination attempt
4. So the whole world thinks that she's a hero
3. Even though Sam knows that she is far, far from being a hero
2. And now she's been appointed teen ambassador to the UN

And the number one reason Sam's life is over?

1. The president's son just might be in love with her

We Think: Amusing, but not that great.

"1-800-Where-R-You" by Meg Cabot

Just because her best friend wants to exercise, Jessica Mastriani agrees to walk the two miles home from their high school. Straight into a huge Indiana thunderstorm - and straight into trouble.

Not that Jess has never been in trouble before. Her extracurricular activities, instead of cheerleading or 4-H, include fistfights with the football team and monthlong stints in detention - luckily, sitting right next to Rob, the sexiest senior around. But this trouble is serious.

Because somehow on that long walk home, Jessica acquired a newfound talent. An amazing power that can be used for good... or for evil.

We Think: Boring. Usually, Meg Cabot's books are good. But this one? I will give it a pass.

Namelia-J is whole again

2009-05-09T20:52:00.000-07:00

Yes, you've read that right! Our very own editor, Hannah, and Head of Sales+Advertising, Sofia, are BACK from National Service!

And yes, I know that they are back way too early - about a month too early - but there is a very good reason for it. They are going to start college on the 23rd this month.

Hannah is going to study in Kuantan - we are going to be separated yet again. Heartbreaking much? Thankfully, Sofia is going to stay here and study, however, she has to stay in a hostel so I can't see her much anyway.

Sigh.

I apologise for the lack of updates. I have been very busy with college life, assignments, driving and what not. I will try to give you all more updates. Stay tuned. :)

MOVIES to watch

2009-04-13T21:03:00.000-07:00

"The Secret Life Of Bees" Namelia-J's Pick

Set in South Carolina in 1964, this is the tale of Lily Owens a 14 year-old girl who is haunted by the memory of her late mother. To escape her lonely life and troubled relationship with her father, Lily flees with Rosaleen, her caregiver and only friend, to a South Carolina town that holds the secret to her mother's past. Taken in by the intelligent and independent Boatwright sisters, Lily finds solace in their mesmerizing world of beekeeping.

We Think: An extremely beautiful, touching movie that will bring tears to your eyes. A must watch for those who love sentimental movies.

"The Uninvited"

Based on Kim Jee-Woon's 2003 Korean horror film, "Changhwa Hongryon," "The Uninvited" revolves around Anna (Emily Browning), who returns home after spending time in the hospital following the tragic death of her mother. Her recovery suffers a setback when she discovers her father (David Strathairn) has become engaged to her mother's former nurse, Rachel (Elizabeth Banks). That night, Anna is visited by her mother's ghost, who warns her of Rachel's intentions. Together, Anna and her sister (Arielle Kebbel) try to convince their father that his current fiancee is not who she pretends to be, and what should have been a happy family reunion becomes a lethal battle of wills between stepdaughters and stepmother.

We Think: It starts off very cliched, making you think that the killer is right in front of your face, but this movie finishes off with a twist. A good movie. Eventhough it is not that scary, I heard a lot of screams coming from the audience when I watched this in the cinema.

"Make it Happen"

Lauryn is a young woman from a small town in Indiana who moves to Chicago with dreams of entering the Chicago School of Music and Dance. But after rejection and a series of misfortunes she finds herself working in a burlesque club. The club proves to be a place of conflict and self-discovery, helping Lauryn to realize that even though plans may change, dreams never do.

We Think: I thought that it would another typical dance movie, and I was nearly right except that the movie did not have a gang or a person where the heroine would have a dance battle with - admit it, most dance movies are like that, right? Like every other dance movie, though, it has the element where the main character wants to fulfill her dream of becoming a dancer. The movie is very cliched but it is not bad. I just wish that the dancing is better though. It is not entertaining enough, in my opinion.

"Mall Cop"

Kevin James, of King of Queens and Hitch fame, plays your typical "every man" character in this movie. Paul Blart is a guy whose dream job (New Jersey state trooper) is just out of his grasp, but who's making the best he can out of the job he has - security guard at the local mall. He lives with his mother and daughter and dreams of finding that one person who can love and appreciate him for himself. The fateful time arrives for Paul to prove just what he's made of when a group of really bad folks, disguised as Santa's Helpers, take control of the mall just before closing time on Black Friday, the biggest shopping day of the year. They chase all the customers out at gunpoint, lock the doors, and take hostages in the bank branch located in the mall, including the object of Paul's affection - Amy - a kiosk worker in the mall. Their plan - steal the approximately $3 million in sales receipts on the credit card machines in the mall's stores. They've got just one problem - Paul Blart.

We Think: A thoroughly horrible movie. I was waiting for a laugh but none came. It isn't funny. At all. The most that this movie will get out of you is a few half hearted chuckles at the beginning of it. Watching this was almost excruciating. Note: avoid watching this movie at all costs.

BOOKS, Pick of the Month: April

2009-04-09T00:01:00.000-07:00

"Ten Things I Hate About Me" by Randa Abdel-Fattah

Namelia-J's Pick of the Month

At school I'm Aussia-blonde Jamie- one of the crowd.

At home I'm Muslim Jamilah - driven mad by my Stone Age dad.

I should win an Oscar for my acting skills. But I can't keep it up for much longer...

We Think: This is a very well written story about self acceptance and the way teenagers feel that they need to do anything possible to get accepted by their peers. I was touched when I read this book. I find that I can relate with Jamilah a lot - but I have not gone to the extremes she has; leading a double life. Another plus is that this book is pretty funny as well. A must read.

"Big Mouth & Ugly Girl" by Joyce Carol Oates

Matt Donaghy has always been a big mouth. But it's never got him into trouble - until one day when two detectives escort him out of class for questioning. The charge? Matt has been accused of threatening to blow up Rocky River High School.

Ursula Riggs has always been an ugly girl. She has no time for petty high-school stuff like friends and dating. Ursula is content with minding her own business. And she doesn't even really know Matt Donaghy.

But Ursula knows injustice when she sees it. And she's not afraid to speak out.

We Think: This book has received a lot of critical praise and we agree wholeheartedly with all of them! One example of the reviews that this book has received was by Publishers Weekly where they said, "Believable, full-blooded characters. Convincing high-school back-drop." Not only that, this book has received quite a few awards. What more can you ask for?

"Megan Meade's Guide to the McGowan Boys" by Kate Brian

Megan is used to moving from place to place - it's typical for an army brat. But she drew the line at South Korea. She insisted on staying in the States to finish her last two years of high school. So her parents made arrangements for Megan to live with thei friends, the McGowans... and the McGowans' 7 sons.

Turns out, living with 7 boys might as well be a foreign country! The boys are messy. They are cliquey (who knew?). And worst of all, two of the oldest boys are H-O-T. (A problem considering that they are supposed to be Megan's "brothers.") Megan is definitely in enemy territory. She needs to win over the boys' hearts without totally crushing her own.

And when Megan starts falling for one of them, sibling rivalry takes on a whole new meaning...

What is a girl to do?

We Think: For girls who have always had a fantasy of being surrounded by hot guys, this is a must read! This is a very light and easy read - I finished it within a matter of hours. It was really fun reading this book and I can't help but feel a twinge of envy for Megan. Come on, what girl in her right mind does not want a hot guy after her? ;)

"Pop Princess" by Rachel Cohn

When fifteen-year-old Wonder Blake is plucked from her job at the Dairy Queen and given the chance to become a teen idol, it seems like a dream come true - even if it wasn't her dream, but her older sister Lucky's. Lucky was on her way to becoming a pop star when she died, and Wonder and her family are still trying to recover from their loss. Offered a recording contract, Wonder jumps at the chance to escape from a dead-end town, her fractured family, and worst of all, high school. Suddenly she has it all: a hot new look, a chart-busting hit single, a tour opening for the superstar Kayla. But stardom isn't all glamour - it's also lots of work. And maybe what Wonder really wants is as simple as a guy who likes her for herself.

With spark and humour Rachel Cohn captures the stuggles and glories of an ordinary teenage girl's climb to celebrity. As Wonder rises through the pop-princess star-making machine, she also learns the price - and that maybe being an ordinary teenage girl isn't so bad after all.

We Think: I found this book very boring at the beginning. It was really slow and it dragged alot. But after awhile, it gets interesting. Really interesting. What with the problems that Wonder has to face, competition, people that hate her and bitch fights. This pretty much made up for its boring beginning. Give this book a try and you will find yourself liking it.

An interview with Raunchy NOT!

2009-04-04T16:48:00.000-07:00

A few weeks ago we at Namelia-J asked the girls of Raunchy NOT! for an interview. Luckily, the girls were very nice and they immediately gave us the A-OK! :D

The interview was Hannah's idea but she was unable to carry it out due to National Service - I had no idea what questions she had in mind for Raunchy NOT! but I hope these will do.

For those of you who do not know, Raunchy NOT! is a blogshop run by teenage girls our age (17-18 years old). They sell shoes - think Boonga Shoes - and we think that they are pretty amazing because their shoes are done beautifully for people as young as they are.

Talented would be a word to describe them. Well, then, on to the interview!

1. Where did you get the idea of starting this online business?

Well I've always wanted to start a business so I figured, since online blogshops are pretty successful nowadays, I'd give it a go, along with my partner, we wanted to see if our talents could be recognized. (:

2. Where do you get your supplies (paint, shoes, etc)?

Well we get them from many different stores. There's a large art shop in The Gardens that has all kinds of paint! Including acrylic paint, which is what we use on shoes.

3. How did you learn to paint the shoes? Did you go for classes?

My partner and I have always been good with our hands. We mostly learned how to paint on our own, by practicing and experimenting. Art classes during high school helped us develop our skills as well.

4. How did you come up with the name 'Raunchy NOT!'?

To be honest, it was a pretty random choice. We were trying to think of something ironic. We came up with Raunchy at first, to try to form a sense of irony that our products are labeled "Raunchy" but weren't Raunchy at all. So began coming up with ideas and started drawing the very unattractive men and naked bear and thought we should make them sound bitchy and perasan. So we added NOT! As most people like to joke around saying stuff like for eq. "He's so gorgeous ... NOT!". Credit also goes to our beloved supporter, Harris, for helping us brain storm!

5. Are the shoes washable? As in, will the paint fade after washing it?

Acrylic paint is long lasting and water proof. Most painters and artist who sell hand-painted wood work use acrylic paint because it helps protect the wood and also lasts long. Same goes for shoes!

6. How long does it usually take you to paint a pair of shoes?

When we're not caught up in anything (eg. driving and COLLEGE oh hell) it usually takes us about 2 - 3 days.

7. How much do you usually charge for your handpainted shoes?

It usually depends on the original price of shoes that we purchase for the customer. If a customer were to send us a pair of old shoes that they want made over, it would usually cost less than RM50. (:

If you want to visit their blogshop, please click the following icon.

Pictures (taken from their blogshop):

First: Picture of the girls of Raunchy NOT!

Second: An example of one of the shoe designs they are selling. Gorgeous!

Third: These shoes were custom made for one of their customers. Yes! They can customize your shoes for you! Isn't that great? So if you are interested, don't be shy. Ask away!

Fourth: They don't only sell shoes. This shirt is an example of other products that they are selling. They also sell accessories - check those out. They are reasonably priced and are very cute as well!

We would like to thank the girls of Raunchy NOT! for making this interview possible. Thank you! :)

How to Get Bella Swan's Makeup.

2009-04-02T07:02:00.000-07:00

Kristen Stewart is playing Bella Swan in Hollywood sensation Twilight.

Bella has a fresh, natural look that's simply gorgeous. Bella's description in the novel is "very pale and extremely beautiful with large chocolate brown eyes, so she wore colored lenses every day," says Jeanne Van Phue, the movie's head makeup artist.

"I also pictured her as a natural beauty, which is exactly what Kristen is. I used a light hand while applying all neutral colors to make her look as though she had no makeup on."

So if your looking for your own Edward Cullen, give Bella Swan's look a try!

To get a smooth, even base use your moisturizer and apply matte finish foundation. If you want to go for the pale look, use a foundation that's one shade lighter than your skin tone. Conceal dark circles and imperfections. Sweep pressed powder to jawline, temples and T-zone. Don't use too much powder, however if your skin is oily it's ok to press more on the oily areas, nose and forehead, so that you don't feel too shiny.

Use an earth-toned blush to give cheeks a slight contour.
For lips look for a brownish plum lipstick with a creamy finish.

To get Bella's eye makeup use two neutral matte eye shadows. Apply nude or vanilla right on the middle of the mobile lid and under the brows.

Work taupe or light brown into the crease and blend colors together. If you want to give more depth and definition to the eyes, you can also use an eyeliner pencil in brown or grey. Draw a thin line right to lash line and smudge it with a q-tip or a brush so it's not too harsh. Finish the look with a single coat of mascara on top lashes.

Namelia-J's movie pick

2009-03-28T07:33:00.000-07:00

"The City Of Ember" - Namelia-J's Pick

When mankind is about to come to an end, a group of scientists decide to create and populate a city deep underground. The city of Ember is to last for 200 years after which its inhabitants are to retrieve from a strong box instructions to return to the surface. Over time however, the message is lost and life in Ember is rapidly deteriorating. Their power supply is failing and food is being rationed. It's left to two young adults to unearth the secret of Ember and to lead the way out.

We think: This is a nice movie about global warming - a problem that we are facing right now. We would not be surprised if this is what our future will be like if we do not take care. The cast is also not bad but could be better. Overall, this is a pleasantly good movie to watch.

"Marley and Me"

After their wedding, newspaper writers John and Jennifer Grogan move to Florida. In an attempt to stall Jennifer's "biological clock", John gives her a puppy. While the puppy Marley grows into a 100 pound dog, he loses none of his puppy energy or rambunctiousness. Meanwhile, Marley gains no self-discipline. Marley's antics give John rich material for his newspaper column. As the Grogans mature and have children of their own, Marley continues to test everyone's patience by acting like the world's most impulsive dog.

We Think: Light hearted and funny, this is the perfect movie to watch with your whole family. Watching this movie made me think twice about ever owning a dog. I cringed at every single thing Marley did - some of them my old dog used to do before. Although the movie is a tad predictable, it is a fun movie to watch. I laughed at alot of the things that Marley did that drove his family up the wall. Once again, a great movie to watch with the family! :)

"Dragonball"

The story begins with Goku, who seeks out upon his adoptive grandfather Grandpa Gohan's dying request to find the great Master Roshi and gather all seven Dragon Balls. Of which he has one, in order to prevent the evil Lord Piccolo from succeeding in his desire to use the Dragon Balls to take over the world. And Goku's quest is to obtain the mystical Dragonballs before Piccolo does.

We Think: This movie is very predictable but it is not that bad. We love the martial arts in this movie. We think that was pretty great. However, die hard Dragonball fans may not be too happy about this movie for very obvious reasons. But that doesn't mean you should give this movie a miss.

"The Race to Witch Mountain"

For years, stories have circulated about a secret place in the middle of the Nevada desert, known for unexplained phenomena and strange sightings. It's called Witch Mountain, and when a Las Vegas cab driver (Dwayne Johnson) finds two teens with supernatural powers in his cab, he suddenly finds himself in the middle of an adventure he can't explain. They work together to discover that the only chance to save the world lies in unraveling the secrets of Witch Mountain, and the race begins.

We Think: This movie was boring. At the beginning of the movie, I was confused to what on earth was going on. Half way through the movie, my eyes were already half closed and I was nodding off to sleep. I found the alien, Sara, very irritating for reasons you will find out when you watch this movie. I found myself wishing that she would just shut up. It was also very predictable. Another minus point.

Turn off the lights on the 28th!

2009-03-24T09:32:00.000-07:00

No doubt nearly everyone has heard about the upcoming Earth Hour on the 28th of March? It is being announced on the radio nonstop, constantly reminding us about it. For those of you who do not know, we will tell you. On the 28th of March, we are all to switch off our lights at 8.30 PM for one hour. Yes, from 8.30 PM till 9.30 PM. Don't forget! We at Namelia-J fully support this act of helping to prevent global warming.

But don't just do this one good deed and then promptly forget all about it once the hype is all over. No. Saving the environment takes more effort than that.

We should all make it a habit to always save the environment in our own way (no matter how small) everyday because together, we can make a difference. So, if you are clueless, read on because we are going to give you ten tips to make you a more environmentally conscious individual.

TEN TIPS TO SAVE THE ENVIRONMENT

Do not wash the dishes with the water running continuously.
You may have heard this a million times before, but we are going to repeat it again. Reuse, reduce, recycle! It is the only way to go!
Bring your own shopping bag to the mall instead of accepting the plastic ones when you make a purchase in a store.
Compost your vegetable scraps.
Switch off the lights when you leave the room.
Set a timer on your air conditioner instead of letting it run throughout the night. Even better, use a fan instead.
Use reusable plates and utensils instead of disposable ones - using polysterene containers is very harmful to the environment since it is not biogradeable.
If you must use plastic bags, use a biodegradeable one.
Join a carpool.
Wash and dry only full loads of dishes and laundry.

And that's about it! Of course, there are many many MANY more ways to help save the environment. We are just helping you towards your first step. Now, let's show Mother Nature that we love her and at the same time, help provide a better future for generations to come.

Announcement: Namelia-J is no longer a four women show

2009-03-21T07:02:00.000-07:00

Yes, you read right. Namelia-J is no longer run by four teenage girls with nothing else better to do. Our numbers has dwindled down to a mere two! But fret not, this situation is temporary. Our editor, Hannah and our very own blonde-but-not-really-a-blonde Sofia have both taken off for National Service, leaving a very blur Melissa as the substitute editor and the kick ass graphic designer Hajer to fend for themselves for THREE WHOLE MONTHS. Let's hope I will be able to keep my cool since I have not the faintest idea on what to write about.

Hajer and I are going to miss Hannah and Sofia. It is going to be weird without you around, Hannah, since we have always been around each other since we were what, seven? And Sofia too. I will miss hanging out and talking about a whole bunch of nonsense with you. There was almost nothing that I could not share with the both of you. *Rubs forehead in frustration* I can't wait to see the both of you again in three months time. And please don't forget us - you'd better not.

Anyways, enough with the rambling. This isn't my blog to sob in, after all.

I hope that I, Melissa, will be able to fill in Hannah's shoes and be able to maintain the blog style of posting that is Namelia-J.

Thank you,

Melissa

No Use Crying Over Spilled Milk!

2009-03-10T20:39:00.000-07:00

For those of you wondering why we haven't had time to update much, we're telling you now that tomorrow, at least 3 out of the 4 Namelia-J staff are facing their very own doomsday!

That's right! The ever frightening, heart-breaking SPM results are coming out tomorrow, March 12th, around 10am; and more than half of our crew are all ready quaking where they stand.

So, yeah, we'll be honest with ourselves and the rest of you reading out there that we haven't been the most studious of individuals back in high school. But, hey! Like they say: no use crying over spilled milk, am I correct?

If there were any good coming out of this, it would be the fact that at least you readers out there have a heads up: take it from us this time around and do not play the fool if you're not ready to deal with the consequences!

Start your school year good by hitting the books early -- don't regret it later on.

Well, that's all the advice we can give to you now. If anyone of you guys have advice for us in return, don't hesitate to share 'em, yeah?

Wish us luck! (Because we'll definitely need it!)

New Namelia-J Badge!

2009-03-01T04:50:00.000-08:00

Yes, another one! Namelia-J bids a fond farewell to our old badge and a hearty hello to this uber cool new one.

Love it, hate it, whatever. Just enjoy it! ;)

Guide for the Beautiful Plus-Sized Teen

2009-03-01T02:43:00.000-08:00

Just because you are a plus-sized teen doesn't mean you can't be a fashion queen! Check out some of these style tips. By Zue.

Don't Ever Hide Under Baggy Clothes!

The biggest fashion mistake that plus-sized teens make is hiding themselves under layers of over sized, baggy clothing. The intention is to conceal their extra pounds by covering themselves up. Unfortunately, wearing baggy clothes only makes you look bigger, and it hides the shape and figure that you do have. A baggy, long shirt will mask your waistline and make your body look much wider than it actually is. Plus girls actually need a more tailored, well fitting wardrobe than their smaller counterparts! Get clothes in your size, or one size larger if you like a slightly loose fit - but no more than one size above your actual size. Remember, your curves are beautiful! And so are you! Nikki Blonsky's not afraid to show her curves!

Accentuate the Positive.

Being a teenager is all about being fashion forward. Develop a personal style, and always accentuate your favorite attributes. For example, if you've got great calves, don't be afraid to wear a skirt that is cut above the knee to show them off. Just because you're not a size four doesn't mean you can't wear stylish outfits. A beautiful, voluptuous shape is entirely worth showcasing! Adopt America Ferrera's positive attitude.

Be Colourful.

You've probably heard that black is slimming, and while this can be true, why would you want to look like you are going to a funeral every day of you life? Come out of mourning, and add some splashes of vibrant color to your life. Not only will you look better, but you will feel better. Bright colors can actually lift your spirits. Also, when you wear black, you blend into the background of things and when you wear color, you stand out - and yes, that is what you want! If vibrant colors just aren't you, consider deep jewel tones, like teal, burgundy and plum. While it is advisable to avoid horizontal stripes if you're trying to look more slender, you shouldn't shy away from patterns. See Queen Latifah!

Try To Accessorize.

Fashion isn't just about clothes. It's also about the accessories, as every fashionista knows. Plus girls can pull off bold, stylish looks with ease! You should coordinate your outfit with your shoes, jewelry, and handbag. Your hair and makeup are also integral to your style. So many plus-sized teenaged girls simply ignore their appearance because they feel that if they're not skinny, there's no use in trying. This could not be further from the truth! Take care of yourself and nurture your appearance. An ample booty doesn't mean you can't also have the hottest hairstyle. Look through celebrity hair style magazines, and ask your hairdresser to replicate the style for you - be sure to bring along the picture. Also, make sure that you ask your hairdresser to walk you through the techniques that he or she used to create the style - so that you can do it yourself at home. Be confident like Adele.

Plus-sized young women can be fashion mavens! It's all about accentuating the positive and developing your own personal style.

Remember, you are beautiful too. ;)

BOOKS, Pick of the Month: March

2009-03-01T01:31:00.000-08:00

Did you all notice that nowadays most books are all about vampires? There is just something so intriguing about them, don't you think? So we at Namelia-J have decided to do book reviews on four vampire novels this month! And let me tell you, trying to decide the pick of the month was very difficult because these books were just so GOOD.

"Marked" by P.C and Kristin Cast
Namelia-J's Pick of the Month

When sixteen year old Zoey is marked by the Tracker, she knows her old life is over. Now she has to leave her friends and family to join the House of Night School, where there's only one subject Zoey needs to study: Vampire 101. Of course, there's always a catch, and this one's nice and simple: if you fail, you die...

We think: Someone please give the mother and daughter team which consists P.C. and Kristin Cast an award! This is the first book in the House of Night series. They have created an intriguing story where readers can definitely relate to the characters. Sadly, the book ended when the excitement was just beginning. I would like to read more of the Casts' works on House of Night series and hopefully, the rest will be just as good, if not better!

"Blue Bloods" by Melissa De La Cruz

Schuyler Van Allen has never fit in at Duchesne, her prestigious New York private school. She prefers baggy, vintage clothes to the Prada and pearls worn by her classmates. But when she turns fifteen, Schuyler's life changes dramatically. The death of a popular schoolmate haunts her in unexpected ways. And strangest of all, Jack Force, the most popular boy in school, is showing a sudden interest in her. Once an outcast, Schuyler is is thrust into Manhattan's most exclusive social circle. Its members are the powerful, the wealthy, and - as Schuyler soon discovers - the inhuman. They are Blue Bloods, an ancient group of vampires, and for centuries they've been invincible. Now something is preying on this elite group, and Schuyler wants to find out the truth. But is she the most vulnerable of them all?

We think: Sexy and compelling, this is definitely a book that you should read. I think Melissa De La Cruz has created one of the most interesting concepts of vampires, far different from your traditional stake-fearing vampire. Give this book a try and you will see for yourself that you will get addicted to Melissa De La Cruz's Blue Bloods series.

"Cirque Du Freak" by Darren Shan

Darren Shan is just an ordinary schoolboy - until he gets an invitation to visit the Cirque Du Freak... until he meets Madam Octa... until he comes face to face with a creature of the night. Soon, Darren and his friend Steve are caught in a deadly trap. Darren must make a bargain with the one person who can save Steve. But that person is not human and only deals in blood...

We think: As the first book of the Darren Shan saga, it is a great start to a great series. This series is full of unexpected twists and turns that will keep you begging for more. This book even made me cry at one point because of the emotional part of it. You can't go wrong with this book. Even J.K Rowling, the genius behind the Harry Potter series, reviewed this book, saying, 'A compelling book... a plot full of twists which leaves the reader hungry for more.'

"A Girl's Guide to Vampires" by Katie MacAlister

Nowadays, finding The One really can be a pain in the neck. Joy Randall should know. She's been looking for the right guy for years. But, as yet, no real man has lived up to the heroes of the vampire romance novels she's completely addicted to. So when her friend Roxy suggests a holiday to the Czech Republic, Joy simply can't say no. After all, it has everything: A craggy romantic landscape; tall, dark, handsome strangers; Immortal, undead, bloodsucking fiends... OK, the last one is just Roxy's imagination. Because vampires don't really exist... or do they? Plagued by dreams of a handsome stranger, haunted by a mysterious prophecy, and pursued by three pale, brooding, sinister suitors, suddenly, Joy isn't so sure...

We think: The beginning of the book is really slow and boring, it is only later on that this book gets interesting. But not interesting enough. Not only that, but I found that Joy's bestfriend, Roxy, is really annoying. I think this book might have strayed away from the plot somewhat. But this book is not all bad. There is definitely a few highlights in this book. But not enough to call this book good.

Happy 18th Birthday, Mel!

2009-02-23T04:51:00.001-08:00

Today we celebrate the 18th birthday of our very own fashionista, Melissa (below)!

We wish her the best in life and all that she does! May her years to come be joyous and full of wonderful experiences. While we're sure that college life will be a handful, know that Namelia-J will be there with you all throughout!

Thanks, Mel, for being the persistent advertiser+idealist+overall supporter of our humble little lifeblog. We really couldn't have done it without you! :D

- Namelia-J

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2009-02-23T03:44:00.000-08:00

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Traits Men Find Attractive in a Woman

2009-02-21T00:17:00.000-08:00

Depending on a man' personality, there are a lot of things that he may find attractive in a woman. However, the below traits are what a majority of men have agreed to be deeply attractive:

1. Smile of a woman:
This is one of the most important traits that most men look for and get attracted to in a woman. The right smile releases all those love hormones in a man and his mind pretty much gets set on that. Most men only visualize a woman's smile when they think about them. The smile of a woman is like a magnet which can draw the man's attention and keep it there.

2. Feminine and delicate Nature:
Men like feminine women. Feminity is all about being delicate, soft, kind hearted and caring. Men are attracted towards feminine girls as they are looking for someone who can care for them. Yes, men do seem hard from outside, but from inside they are like small children and need caring. And they love to be cared about.

I must make it clear that when I meant feminine I did not mean weak or overly shy. There is a difference here that you got to understand. Men like women who are feminine, confident and those who carry themselves with grace.

3. A woman's voice:
Men get attracted and often turned on with the right voice which strikes a cord in them. A highly feminine and soft voice is what most men find attractive. Voice plays a major role as communication is the most important aspect of any relationship. And a good voice is required for a romantic communication. Women who speak too low barely making themselves audible are certainly a turn-off to most men

4. Sense of humor:
Sense of humor is something that most men look for in a woman. Men generally get attracted to women with a good sense of humor – a woman who can understand and laugh with them. Of course, a sense of humor in this case does not necessarily mean the ability to crack jokes; but the ability to understand and laugh at one.

5. Un-materialistic attitude:
Men get attracted to women who are un-materialistic and down to earth. Women who are high maintenance are a major turn-off to any man. Therefore, too much make up, jewelry and gadgets are known to be a big no-no. When it comes to beauty, most men like it au natural.

6.Strong personality:
A strong personality is another trait which men find attractive in woman. Of course this does not mean a woman who is overly stubborn, but instead, it means someone who is not weak minded and can make her own sound decisions.

7. The eyes:
Next to the smile, this is another facial feature that men get attracted to. Some men simply fall in love with the woman's eyes. The eyes can speak a thousand words and this is very much true with it comes to attracting the opposite sex.

8.The Woman's Hair:
Most men get attracted by moderately long straight hair as that looks more feminine. The hair color is also important but different men have different tastes here.

9. Physical Structure:
Often times as women tend to assume, the above factors are much more important to men than the physical structure. This is true when men are looking for women to pursue a long relationship with. Physical appearance of a woman is certainly an attractive feature but it is nothing compared to the above factors.

As far as physical features are concerned, men get attracted to a woman's skin tone, lips, height and body weight. Men certainly prefer women who are shorter than them and those having a body mass equal or lower to them.

Contrary to popular assumptions men are not bothered much about the size of the breasts or back when it comes to looking for a life mate. These factors – though eye-catching at first – are pretty much unimportant in the long run.

10. Comfortable and Confident:
Last but not the least, men get attracted towards women who make them feel comfortable and confident. Women who laugh at their jokes, women who support them, and the one with whom he feels relaxed and open with – that’s the key to what most men deem, “the one.”

DIY: For Him & For Her

2009-02-20T23:49:00.000-08:00

For Him
DUCK TAPE WALLET

MATERIALS
Cutting board
Duct Tape (any color)
Ruler
Exacto knife

INSTRUCTIONS
1. Using a dollar bill as a measuring tool, cut two strips of duct tape slightly larger than your bill.
2. Join the two strips along the long edge, overlapping them by 1/2 inch.
3. Flip the the first strips over and tape the back side, making sure to overlap the outer edges by 1/2 inch.
4. Flip it over again and trim the corners at a 45 degree angle.
5. Fold the 1/2 inch overlap over to make sealed edges.
6. Make a second sheet, this time slightly smaller than the first (but still larger than your dollar bill). Seal the top edge, but use the bottom and side overlaps to seal this sheet to your first (this makes a pocket & your basic wallet structure)
7. To add ID or credit card pockets, you'll make a sheet (just like we did above) that is the same length as your wallet, but about half as tall (you will probably only need one strip of duct tape for each side of the pocket)

For Her
JUICE POUCH COIN PURSE

MATERIALS
Empty drink pouch
Scissors
Velcro
Finishing | hem tape
needle, thread &/or sewing machine
tape

INSTRUCTIONS
1. Carefully cut the sides, top, & bottom of the drink pouch, so that the front and back are now two separate pieces. If you like, with the scissors, go ahead and round the edges of the top and bottom (see picture above)
2. Rinse with water, making sure the pouch pieces are clean, and pat or air dry.
3. Fold each of your pouch pieces into thirds. One will be the front of your purse, the other will be the back, with the velcroed flap.
4. For the front of your purse: keeping the top third folded back, unfold the bottom third, so you now have two-thirds of the pouch showing.
5. With your sewing machine, stitch the top (folded) edge
6. Sandwich the two pieces together, right sides out, and stitch around the edges using a zig-zag pattern. (you may need to tape the pieces together to make sure they don't slip while you're sewing. If you like, fold the finishing tape around the edges before you begin stitching, to give it a more finished look
7. Attach the velcro on the underside of the flap, and on the front of the purse.

Dealing With Insecurities

2009-02-20T23:38:00.000-08:00

1. Recognize your insecurities.
What does that voice in the back of your mind say? What makes you ashamed of yourself? This could be anything from acne, to regrets, or friends at school. Whatever is making you feel unworthy, ashamed, or inferior, identify it, give it a name, and write it down.

2. Talk about it with friends and loved ones.
Wear it on your sleeve. Each day you should chip away at it; wear it down. There's no quick fix. Get to the root of the problem; focus on it and understand that you need to resolve each issue before you can move on.

3. Remember that no one is perfect.
Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. That is reality. Learn that life is full of bumps down the road.

4. Identify your successes.
Everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, then focus on your talents. Give yourself permission to take pride in them. Give yourself credit for your successes. Inferiority is a state of mind in which you've declared yourself a victim. Do not allow yourself to be victimized. Express yourself, whether it's through art, music, writing, etc. Find something you enjoy. Everyone is born with talents and strengths. You can develop and excel in yours. If it's difficult to name two or three things you have some ability in or just plain love to do, think about things others do that you would like to do too and take some lessons or join an enthusiasts club. When you're following your passion, not only will it have a therapeutic effect, but you'll feel unique and accomplished, all of which can help build your self confidence. Plus, adding a variety of interests to your life will not only make you more confident, but it will increase your chances of meeting compatible friends!

5. Be thankful for what you have.
A lot of the times, at the root of insecurity and lack of confidence is a feeling of not having enough of something, whether it's emotional validation, good luck, money, etc. By acknowledging and appreciating what you do have, you can combat the feeling of being incomplete and unsatisfied. Finding that inner peace will do wonders for your confidence.

6. Be Positive, even if you don't feel positive.
Avoid self-pity, or the pity and sympathy of others. Never allow others to make you feel inferior--they can only do so if you let them. If you continue to loathe and belittle yourself, others are going to do and believe likewise. Instead, speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about your progress. Do not be afraid to project your strengths and qualities to others. By doing so, you reinforce those ideas in your mind and encourage your growth in a positive direction.

7. Accept compliments gracefully.
Don't roll your eyes and say, "Yeah, right," or shrug it off. Take it to heart and respond positively ("Thank you" and a smile works well).

8. Look in the mirror and smile.
Studies surrounding what's called the "facial feedback theory" suggest that the expressions on your face can actually encourage your brain to register certain emotions. So by looking in the mirror and smiling every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run.

9. Fake it.
Along the same lines of smiling to make yourself feel happy, acting confident might actually make you believe it. Pretend you're a completely confident version of you; go through the motions and see how you feel

10. Stick to your principles.
It might be tough, but if you don't have something you can believe in, you don't have anything. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything. No matter what's happened in your life, you can always lay claim to the fact that from this day forward, you've followed your principles to the best of your ability.

11. Help others.
When you know you're kind to the people around you, and are making a positive difference in other people's lives (even if it's just being kinder to the person who serves you coffee in the morning), you'll know that you are a positive force in the world--which will boost your self confidence. Go volunteer twice a month at an elementary school. Bake something for your neighbor for no reason. Confidence that you have earned is the most long-lasting.

12. Stop worrying.
What worries you today will be forgotten by you and people around you tomorrow. Can you remember what you were so worried about the same day the same time last week? If not, then you should not worry right now. You will not worry about it even one week from now.

13. Be yourself.
You cannot be the shadow of any man, either distant or near. You are an individual person, you must live by yourself. Always remember, never forget who you are. Don't ever be something you're not.

Which Trendsetter Are You?

2009-02-19T22:55:00.000-08:00

Look at the pictures below and see which of these Hollywood trendsetters appeal to your inner diva. Along with these images, we have also compiled a decently accurate account of the type of personality you tend to show off whenever you’re at the peak of your happiness.

Scream it loud, scream it proud! You’re Katy Perry!
Katy Perry is the fresh Hollywood starlet who seems to have appeared out of virtually nowhere. Her style exudes retro funk; and she’s not afraid to play with sexy numbers and mix matched colors. Just like her music, this hot, new artist is fun and unique. If Katy Perry is your choice trendsetter, the odds are, you LOVE the spotlight. Life is short, so, hey, why not make good use of it?

Its natural beauty all the way for you! You’re Miley Cyrus!
Just like Miley, you’re all about hanging loose and taking it easy. Its not the look that matters most to you, it’s the feeling. If you’re not comfortable with the way you dress, then, most likely, you aren’t going to be wearing that same outfit twice. If your choice trendsetter is Miley Cyrus, its possible that you’d pick a good day lazing around at home instead of a hectic day out with your friends.

The best thing about being a girl is dressing like one – you’re Taylor Swift!
Demure and oozing with feminity, you’re a lot like the beautiful Taylor Swift! Your style is sweet, sensual, and all but chaotic. While others might take the lyrics of a loud rock song to heart, you always see the optimistic side in life. In justification of her music, Taylor (and you!) is a class A romantic – what others may consider, “normal”, you are able to see as beautiful and special in its own way.

Break the barriers of silence and drench yourself in music! You’re Demi Lovato!
Aside from her acting with the Jo Bros, Demi Lovato is looked at for her great taste in style. Like her sultry, rockin’ vocals, Demi twists a take at your average outfit with loads of accessories – belts, hats, tights, bangles; you name it! Bold, but never over the top, she is nonetheless sweet when you sit her down and have a long chat with her. Jump in celebration and belt out those tunes – you’re just like her!

2009-02-14T03:46:00.000-08:00

DIY: Hair Tips & Tricks

2009-02-14T03:12:00.000-08:00

Celebrities are always under the scrutinizing lens of the paparazzi — even when they're on a boat off the coast of Sardinia. Some of my best tricks come from giving myself fashion advice on what to do when I'm far from the salon. A few of these may sound insane (and will feel even more so when you're standing in front of the mirror), but I swear they work. You'll probably find out that when you use the right tools and techniques, you can be a pretty decent stylist yourself.

Do the Wave.
Rumpled, tousled waves are incredibly sexy, easy, and appropriate for a formal or casual event. Think of Gisele's hair, but messier. I've been doing it a lot on myself and my sister, so I know that it works on just about any hair texture. If your hair is wavy or curly, scrunch in two handfuls of Paul Mitchell Extra-Body Sculpting Foam (I don't know whether it's available in Malaysia, I got 'em from my aunt in New York) while it's still damp and let it air-dry. Then coat your palms with Bumble and Bumble Styling Wax and run your hands through your hair. If your hair is straight, you can blow it dry with a large paddle brush and wrap random one-inch sections around a large-barrel curling iron. Once all the hair is curled, mist it with a light finishing spray and scrunch with your hands to loosen the curls. If you don't have any of Paul Mitchell products, L'Oreal, Redken, Schawrzkopf, and Keratase works just the same.

Cut the Slack!
This is a trick for trimming shaggy, face-framing bangs, which is what most of my sister has. Instead of scissors, which can slip and cut hair unevenly, use a new, disposable single-blade razor (double and triple blades can split the hair). When hair is completely dry, brush bangs forward, and gather them in the middle of your face (between your eyes). Pull it taut with your index and middle fingers. Slide your fingers all the way to the ends of the hair, then gently run the razor above your fingers. When you're finished, make sure the length is even by pulling a piece of hair from either side toward the center of the face; they should be equidistant from the bridge of the nose.

Soften Up.
Every time I see a head of fried hay-hair in the mirror, I have the same recipe: Mix two tablespoons each of a rinse-out conditioner, a leave-in conditioner, a deep conditioner, and a hair mask in a bowl. Wet two large towels, wring them out, and put one in the microwave for a minute. Comb the mixture through clean, damp hair, and wrap it all up in the hot towel. Heat the second towel and alternate, repeating two or three more times. Do this once a week—it makes hair much softer. If you want, honey or olive oil works too. Just don't leave them too long in your hair, if you don't want your hair to become extra oily. Don't forget: Comb your hair regularly. Don't be afraid of falling hairs. It's natural for a girl's hair to fall more than sixty strands of hair. But if big clumps of hairballs, whoa, I'll have the remedy to post later.

Here are some of the greatest hair products ever made:
PAUL MITCHELL, REDKEN 5TH AVENUE NYC, ANZA HEALING HAIRCARE, MURAD, MIZANI, LOGICS, KMS CALIFORNIA, TIGI, FAROUK, FRAMESI, ALTERNA, PLATINUM EFFECT, GOLDWELL, MATRIX, SCRUPLES, CHI, PUREOLOGY, SEBASTIAN PROFESSIONAL, INTAGLIA, REDKEN, L'OREAL PARIS, KERATASE.

Celebrity Gossip: Chris Brown Attacked Rihanna‏

2009-02-14T02:08:00.000-08:00

We all know about the big drama where Chris Brown has allegedly attacked his girlfriend, Rihanna, following Clive Davis' pre-Grammys party. Rihanna has allegedly told the police that Chris choked her while threatening to kill her, causing her to lose consciousness. When she came to, Chris had already fled the scene. Police have reported that Rihanna has horrific evidence of bite marks on her hands and fingers, and as well as contusions on both sides of her face. Chris Brown later turned himself in to the police but was later released on $50K bail.

In light of recent events, Rihanna has postponed her sold out concert here in Malaysia. A new date is said to be announced two weeks from now so hold on to your tickets, everyone! Rihanna's 21st birthday bash which was to be held in NYC was canceled by her record label. Chris Brown has withdrawn from scheduled appearances at the NBA All-Star Events. The popular "Got Milk?" spots has dropped Chris Brown from their celeb roster. Wrigley's Doublemint Gum has halted its endorsement deal with the singer.

There are speculation that Chris could be sentenced up to nine years in jail or may not serve any time at all. Whether he serves time or not, his reputation will be tarnished (already is, actually).

To be honest, we at Namelia-J were shocked to hear this piece of news. I for one, love both of the singers' work and really thought that they made a cute couple. But beating up a woman? A huge no-no in our books. But we do not know for sure about what really happened so we can't jump to conclusions. Let's just wait and see. Stay tuned.

6 Men You Shouldn't Date

2009-02-13T23:37:00.001-08:00

Stepping out of your childhood and into the world of teenage life comes with both gifts and catastrophes. One of these catastrophes come in the form that I'm sure most of us are well aware of -- GUYS.

Guys, like girls, come in all shapes, colours, sizes, and styles. With so many to choose from; we are often left dizzy and unsure. Questions like, "Could this be the right guy?" start popping up into your mind; but as soon as said question is raised, out comes Lover Boy's kind, easing words.

And, just like that, you're hooked.

But we at Namelia-J aren't going to let you become bait to the wrong type of men. In our opinion, the best is only what you deserve, so we took the liberty getting opinions as well as information from an ACTUAL guy -- all for your benefit!

In a relationship public service announcement, Jake tells us whom to avoid (himself included!):

1. Rebound Guy
Knowing how bummed I’ve been since my ex Claudia left for Europe, my buddy tried to set me up with his “hot coworker.” Very kind of him, but I declined. With my heart stuck in international customs, there’s no way I could make a connection. Not that I wasn’t tempted. We men secretly hope we’ll never have to deal with our feelings and instead can “fix” our sadness with a new woman. Problem is, we’re always comparing her to the ex—how she is in bed, how her butt looks in jeans. Real mature stuff that you’d be wise to avoid by dating us after we’ve healed.

2. Disappearing Guy
Some seemingly normal guys have a bad habit of vanishing. Excuses like “work’s really busy” may be true, but there’s often something else going on. My old roommate tried to woo his new girlfriend while still dating his old one. I also know someone who told a woman he was single in New York, although he was married in Ohio. Both guys checked out for days at a time.

When you’re just starting to date, it’s not like you’re tracking a person’s every movement. Still, the giveaway is erratic contact—is he in touch every day and then suddenly MIA? Does he often cancel plans? Or does he suddenly want to meet up in an hour, after not calling all week? Beware.

3. Slick Guy
With his sporty car, high-tech cell phone and Swedish designer toothbrush, my college roommate managed to hide his insecurity behind hip stuff. He never let women get close for fear they’d find him out. So women wound up feeling rejected when he was the one who sucked.

My advice: If his life looks like a magazine spread, steer clear. Say what you will about the guy who has a painting of poker-playing dogs or a mountain of laundry, but I promise you this: He’s real.

4. Rude Guy
I’m amazed at what men get away with. A partial list of nasty moves I’ve witnessed: checking out the waitress, fiddling with a BlackBerry during dinner, asking the cute bartender for her number when his date is in the bathroom. If a man lets the door slam shut instead of opening it for you, make that all the closure you need.

5. Grabby Guy
Hands on thighs, stroking things that didn’t ask to be stroked, sexual innuendos when you barely know each other—he may try to explain these things with an “Oh, I’m so attracted to you I can’t help it” line. But no matter how smokin’ hot you are, he can help it. And if you’re not getting the respect you want early on, he probably won’t surprise you with it later.

6. Last Year’s Guy
Long nights and a fear of being single forever can make going back to an ex seem mighty attractive. I’ve been guilty of it twice, both during lonely times in the dead of winter. Recycling romance seemed far easier than the unknown, and it was...for the two months before we rediscovered exactly why we broke up in the first place. What’s the lesson here? Move forward, not back. And know that it’s better to be out there looking than stuck on a couch with some guy you’re just going to wind up dumping anyway. He might be happy, but you deserve more.

BUDGET BUYS, Feb '09

2009-02-08T03:36:00.000-08:00

TOTAL SPENT = RM88.40

That's about the price of one Laura Mercier Glace (RM89)

High Waist Shorts + Pearls

2009-02-07T06:35:00.000-08:00

This 2009 has much to offer. Starting with high waist shorts and vintage pearl necklaces. The possibilities are endless when it comes to mixing and matching, but we definitely love the funky slacker look this set offers you.

Sick of being the wall flower all the time? Then add some color into your wardrobe. Give this choice a go, while still sticking to the trend!

BOOKS, Pick of the Month: February

2009-01-30T03:24:00.000-08:00

"Pretty Little Devils" by Nancy Holder
Namelia-J's Pick of the Month

Hazel Stone is sick of being a wallflower and will do anything to get into the most popular clique in her school; The Pretty Little Devils. The PLDs comprises of Sylvia Orly, the ruthless ringleader of the clique; Megan Williams and Carolyn Bosch, who will do anything to stay on Sylvia's good side' and Ellen Schmidt, whom the group treats as their scapegoat, who knows better than anyone that popularity comes at a price. Especially when it comes to Brandon Wilde, one of the school's first string jocks, who is juggling relationships with more than one of the PLDs; and Matty Vardeman, the mysterious new guy who caught Hazel's attention, but he is also in the sights of Brenda Wu, head cheerleader and the PLDs top rival. Like Sylvia, she'll do whatever it takes to get what she wants. One is a killer. Before the school year is over, three will die. Will they be able to catch the killer?

We think: The book reminds me a bit of the movie Mean Girls. It keeps me guessing who the killer is till the very end. I rate it 5/5.

"Queen Of Babble in the Big City" by Meg Cabot
Lizzie Nichols, the woman with the biggest mouth is back and she is trying to find her place in the big city of New York. While trying to make it in New York, she is looking for a job, and a place to live. When 'Summer Fling' Luke uses the L word (Living Together), she is only too happy to move into his mother's Fifth Avenue pied-a-terre. But she is not as lucky in her employment search. Her bestfriend Shari has landed the perfect job while Lizzie struggles through one humiliating interview after another, until Shari's boyfriend Chaz lands Lizzie a receptionist's position at his father's posh law firm. The non-paying job at a local wedding-gown shop Lizzie manages to find all on her own. But Lizzie's notoriously big mouth gets her into trouble almost at once - first at the law firm for getting too chummy with a society bride and then with Luke when she brings up the M word (Marriage). Soon Lizzie finds herself jobless and homeless all over again. Can she save herself and find career security (not to mention a committed relationship) at last?

We think: I found the book a bit boring. Meg Cabot can do better than this. 2/5

"Dancing at Midnight" by Julia Quinn
When a suitor tells Lady Arabella Blydon that he is willing to overlook her appalling bluestocking tendencies on account of her looks and fortune, she decides to take a break from the Marriage Mart. So during an extended stay in the country, she never expects to meet Lord John Blackwood, a wounded war hero who intrigues her like no other man. Lord John has lived through the worst horrors of war, but nothing could have been as terrifying to his tormented heart as Lady Arabella. She is intoxicating, infuriating... and she makes him want to live again. Suddenly he is writing bad poetry and climbing trees in the pitch-dark night, just so he can dance with her. But when the harsh light of day replaces the magic of midnight, can this tormented soul learn to love again?

We think: Perfect for girls who are pure romantics at heart who think that they can change a man and pull him out of the pain that he has been living for the past few years. I give it a 4/5.

"Jenny Green's Killer Jr. Year" by Amy Belasen & Jacob Osborn

Jenny Green is a spoiled teen "princess" and she wants a fresh start at her new school (Montreal's Molson Academy). She is curious to see what Montreal has to offer, especially in the boy department. Beautiful, charming and sharp-witted, Jenny has no trouble getting the boys to fall for her. But when she discovers just how despicable the male gender can be - with the lying, the cheating, and the utter disrespect - she decides to make them pay... with their lives.

We think: Sadly, I can relate to some of the things that Jenny went through when dealing with boys. And also the things that she has done to them to make them pay, I can honestly say those thoughts have run past my mind a few times in my imagination; only thing is that I do not act out on the scenes in my imagination. I give it a 4/5.

Between the Lines

2009-01-29T23:18:00.000-08:00

Other people can be really confusing, especially when it comes to crushes and dating. He may constantly text you while you’re neighborhoods, but when it comes to bumping into him in the hallways at school, he hardly even spares you a glance. He might stare at you from across the class for an entire period, but the next day, he gives you the cold shoulder. Maybe you have the sneaking suspicion that your best guy-pal has the hots for you; or maybe your gut is telling you to give your lab partner a wink, since he has been eying you for quite a while; but the thing is, you haven’t got the nerve.

I mean, if he likes you, fine – your gut instincts are the bomb.

--but what if he doesn’t? Talk about total humiliation.

Well, if it helps any, we here at Namelia-J so totally understand your predicament – we, ourselves, have perspired through the nitty-gritty of mixed signals, and we actually sort of know how embarrassing it can be to play in a scene where you’ve read said signals completely wrong!

So, to avoid any potential face-burners, we’ve devised a sort of kind of full-proof method of extracting the interest from the not so interested – the like from the dislike.

Be sure you’ve read through all these body signals before you make your next move:

Notice This!

1. Have you ever been in a conversation where it was only you and your potential new boyfriend? Notice how the trunk of his body seems to be facing your direction. It may not be love entirely, but he is definitely interested enough to give you some attention.

2. Now, I know you don’t often find guys doing this; but when a person you think is interested in you crosses his legs in your direction, your gut feeling is probably on the right track.

3. For him to break the awkwardness by invading your personal bubble means he holds at least some form of fascination in your character. Well, it is either that or he feels comfortable enough in your presence to ignore the absolute lack of private space. Either way – he doesn’t NOT like you.

4. Physical contact is always a sign of attraction, so if you find him making excuses to touch you regularly (for even the stupidest reasons), he is basically telling you outright that he IS into you.

5. Ever have the awkward suspicion that someone is sizing you up? In regular cases, during eye-contact, a person would scan only your eyes; going briefly from one eye to another – no romantic emotions intended. It becomes another story entirely, however, when the person you are talking to starts moving (from your eyes) to the rest of your face almost in curiosity during an intense one-on-one.

6. The size of someone’s pupil depends on only two things: light and attraction. The darker the room, the larger the guy’s pupil tends to be. Same goes for attraction. So, say you are in a pretty well-lighted area. His pupils seem pretty well dilated, too. Lucky guesses, anyone?

7. Like a cute little puppy, the cute boy in front of you will often tilt his head slightly when addressing your presence – both adorable and a close-to-sure sign of liking you! How much better can it get?

8. Picture me this: you’re in the middle of an intense scene of a major blockbuster flick. Your popcorn is left unattended due to your total focus on the screen. Your jaw hangs. Your eyes are completely drawn to the main character. You’re sitting on the edge of your seat. Just like your reactions in a movie theater, a sure-fire way of telling whether or not you have a guy’s full attention is to notice how closely he sits from the edge of the chair he is sitting on. The closer the better.

9. Lastly, a full proof sign that this dude so totally digs you are the grooming behaviors you tend to notice whenever the two of you share the same room. And by grooming behaviors, I do mean the fixing of the hair, the straightening of the clothes, and the checking of the teeth. If anything, this guy at least just REALLY wants to make a good impression in front of you.

REVIEW: Jonas Brothers, "A Little Bit Longer"

2009-01-28T04:17:00.000-08:00

While Namelia-J isn't exactly a fan of the much-crazed-over Jonas Brothers, we decided to suck it up for a change and turn our focus on their (the Jonas Brother's) new album, "A Little Bit Longer". Lets just hope they fair well against our very own Paula and Simon; the self entitled "The Optimist" and "The Skeptic".

Where the Jonas Brothers lack in actual soulful tunes, they make up for in a fun, good time. I can easily say that 8 out of the 12 tracks from this album are instant crowd-pleasers -- what with their pop-rock tunes and jump-happy lyrics, fans of all ages ought to be satisfied – and the remaining 4 are catchy, feel-good ones that will definitely quench your thirst for music.

I mean, while it goes without say that the Jonas Brother’s are not the deepest rock trio out there, that hardly suggests that this album isn’t worth picking up. In fact, if anything, its tracks like “Shelf” and “Lovebug” that just make you want to listen to their CD over and over again.

Other songs such as “Sorry” and “Tonight” -- though not the most emotion-ridden ones -- have, also, my nod of genuine approval; for their (the Jonas Brothers) take on something with a little more depth than most other pop offerings is always worth a thumbs up.

All in all, what it really boils down to is that this album by the Jonas Brother’s is an honest keeper. What with the variety of tracks and the list of original flavors, I would definitely say that this has got to be one of the year’s most essential pop-albums.

In a nutshell?

Among the billion words found in the entire English dictionary, there is simply one word to describe this album: boring. It has no depth and I can easily describe the lyrics as pointless. Song after song, the tune is just... there. It is just blah. I really felt as if I had been listening to the exact same thing for the entire 39 minutes and 34 seconds of turning said album on. I even found myself forwarding through the tracks more than a couple of times.

Basically, what I am trying to say is that the Jonas Brother’s attempt at “rock” hits was a desperate and much failed one. The only song that really caught my eye would be “Burnin’ Up”, and even that, I would say, hardly spares enough lyrical power for me to wrap my finger around.

What really surprises me, though, is that I am not surprised by the fact that they (the Jonas Brothers) have such a large fan base.

After all, if you’re just as much the teeny-bopper as the record is aiming for, then the lack of depth within their songs would hardly faze you; I mean, if your greatest heartbreak is that of a ten minute “relationship”, then, really, how would you know any better?

My final verdict:

Make-up for Your Skin Tone

2009-01-25T02:46:00.000-08:00

The use of makeup can either make you or break you -- play it safe, and you will forever be the wallflower; but overuse might just portray the wrong impression of you. Depending on your skin tone, the makeup you choose will need to flatter your face and hair. Play up your best features with the right amount of colors, tints and hues for your skin color.

Make-up for Fair Skin...
If you are fair skinned with an undertone of rose; a wise choice would be to take a leaf out of Scarlett Johansson's makeup artist. Fair skinned girls such as yourself look best in sheer colors. By applying earth tones or pastel colors such as lavender or baby blue, you will bring the best out of your eyes.

Various shades of pink will also compliment your skin tone. Stick to shades of black and brown when applying mascara; as that darker tone, as opposed to your layer of light-colored eyeshadow, will give you the "oomph" you need. Light, sheer lipstick gives your look the finishing touch, as well as introduce the world to your youthful, flirty side.

Make-up for Olive Skin Tones...
To be olive skinned, your skin (whether fairly dark or moderately fair) must have an undertone of yellow. Most ethnic people (Latinos, Mediterraneans, Hispanics, etc.) or even those of mixed heritage are olive skinned.

With your darker skin tone, neutral shades as well as dark purple and blue will look great on your eyes. Metallic colors also look remarkable, for (unlike other skin tones), they compliment your skin tone dynamically well.

Highlight your cheekbones with bronzing powder, dark plum, chestnut, or terra-cotta blush -- you'll look fabulous in it! Keep the tones natural and avoid anything too light as the wrong shade may end up making you look a bit on the pasty side.

Lipstick shades that will bring out your lips are berry, plum, russet and almond. Avoid "true" reds, as they will clash with your skin tone.

Our inspiration? The beautiful Jessica Alba.

Make-up for Dark Skin...
Dark skinned people may have their work cut out for them when addressing the right volumes of makeup; so, for this one, we decided to borrow a few pointers from gorgeous Miss Naomi Campbell. For eye shadow; gray, brown and natural shades are your best pick. Also try shimmer colors such as silver, bronze and terracotta when your look calls for that extra punch. Have fun experimenting with various shades of mascara, as well, for almost anything goes with your skin tone.

For blush, more pigment is a must. Deep rose and apricot shades will highlight your cheekbones beautifully, as well as give you that dramatic impression you're looking for. Dark lip colors such as apricot, caramel, blackberry and red are your best choices for they will complement the rest of your ensemble.

A word of warning, however, is to stay as far away as possible from anything with a strong orange base, as this will serve to only flatter your skin tone in the worst ways possible.

What Type of Skin Do YOU Have?

2009-01-24T23:42:00.000-08:00

There are five basic types of skin: oily, combination, sensitive, dry, and sun-damaged. Depending on this, your skin requires different sorts of treatment; therefore, it is very important that you fully understand your skin’s requirements before simply picking up a skin care product from your average pharmacy or drug-store.

And while certain professionals will immediately judge the sort of skin you have at a mere glance, it isn’t necessary that you fork out an ample amount of cash for it. In fact, you, too, can figure out what sort of skin you have by this simple method:

Firstly, give your face a good wash, pat it dry after that, then take a few pieces of rice paper and gently press them on different spots on your face.

If you find that the paper does not stick or pick up any oily spots, your skin is dry. If it only sticks to areas in your t-zone (forehead, nose and chin), you most likely have combination (or normal) skin.

Here are the 5 different skin types and their characteristics:

Type 1: Oily
Oily skin tends to be shiny with enlarged pores. People with oily skin are prone to blackheads, acne, as well as blemishes.

Type 2: Combination/Normal
This skin type has medium pores, a smooth and even texture, healthy color, may tend towards dryness on the cheeks while being oily in the t-zone.Basically, people with combination-skin do not have to bother with overuse of skin-care products, as their skin is relatively in good condition.

Type 3: Sensitive
Sensitive skin tends to be delicate, with very fine pores. It flushes easily, is frequently allergic, and is prone to rashes. Those with sensitive skin ought to consult their doctors before buying any skin-care product; for the wrong product may risk their health.

Type 4: Dry
Dry skin often feels tight, especially after cleansing. You have a tendency towards fine wrinkles and, with age, saggy skin. In women of color, skin may appear dull from dead skin buildup.

Type 5: Aging or Sun-damaged
This skin often feels tight with visible wrinkles, slack skin tone – especially around the cheeks and jaw line – with leathery texture.

Horoscope: Aquarius

2009-01-24T03:01:00.000-08:00

Others...

To Save or to Splurge?

2009-01-24T01:09:00.000-08:00

...that is the ultimate question.

Picture me this: Its your money; you've earned it. From ordinary household chores like throwing out the trash, to scraping for bits of cash each time you volunteer to babysit those terrible twins from across the street -- you've done it all!

Now that it is finally payday, you are stuck with two choices:

Should I save, or should I splurge?

We at Namelia-J have weighed both the pros, as well as the cons of both saving and spending. Check it out!

Our Solution??

Its not everyday that you get to buy yourself something nice, so, really, there is no harm in splurging once in a while. However, keep in mind that it is your money you're using here and your work you're spending away with. The point of treating yourself something nice is to feel good about it, not to regret later on. Also, make it a habit to keep aside about 40% of what you've made in your account, for future reference -- trust me, it helps.

-- and who knows? You might just find something even prettier later on! =)

Must-Haves of 2009

2009-01-23T20:40:00.000-08:00

This 2009, we're saying goodbye to neutral, bland tones, and HELLO to bold, flashing articles of color. That's right -- and orange and pink is so no longer the fashion disaster of the world. Bright, loud prints are exactly what we're aiming for here; this season's theme is all about erasing your woes of being the wall flower and spreading the joy that is life!

Also, we hereby confirm that skinny jeans are so yesterday's fashion. What's in now are colored leggings and sheer fabrics (think ala '60s, everyone). White nail polish,Oxfords, and even metallic makeup have made its comeback this year, and (hopefully), its the real deal this time around.

Large, gold and silver bling is also making its way into all the fashion good books of the season -- we're talking funky, LOUD, LARGE statement here, girls!

Pearls and fedoras? All the top dogs of the fashion industry are giving their big thumbs up of approval, and Namelia-J is not ashamed to admit that, hey, we're pretty keen on the idea, too!

Our only exact no-no for this year, however, comes in the form of (what others might call) pretty for your feet. We here at Namelia-J are putting our foot down entirely at the return of... (drum roll, please)

THESE!

Gladiator shoes

They're big, they're bad, and gosh-darn, they should be returned home to where you found them -- your grandmother's closet. Gladiator shoes -- though deemed a fashion icon this 2009 -- are jumping right into Namelia-J's "NO" list. We are not sure what the rest of the world were thinking when they allowed the comeback of these horrendous flats; but one thing is for certain, you are not going to see one of these here at Namelia-J so very soon.

See, we here at Namelia-J pride ourselves for being one of the very few fashion-followers who make it habit to think for ourselves. Instead of doing what most others are doing (which is going straight with the flow, no matter where said flow is leading you), we pick only what we deem a worthy buy.

While fashion trends come and go depending on whichever season it is, we at Namelia-J are stubborn with our belief that whatever is pretty, STAYS pretty.